Who I Am in Relationships

I am a passionate + forward-moving person + I am driven & results-oriented + I bring energy into everything I care about

 You bring a powerful sense of momentum into your relationships. You don’t just connect with people—you move things forward with purpose, energy, and vision. Whether it’s a friendship, a romantic partnership, or a team dynamic, you naturally take the lead when no one else will, not because you need to be in control, but because you care about where things are going. You’re fully engaged, deeply invested, and driven to see people—and the relationship itself—grow and improve over time. You don’t settle for surface-level interactions. You want connection with purpose and movement with meaning.

You have a natural intensity that others feel right away. You show up with high standards, clear goals, and a desire to bring out the best in the people around you. If something feels stagnant or unproductive, you find a way to break through. You don’t just want to “do life” with someone—you want to build something together. Whether that’s a stronger bond, a shared goal, or a better version of yourselves, you’re in it to make progress. You’re the kind of person who challenges others to rise, not just emotionally but practically—and that makes you a powerful catalyst in any relationship.

What I Need + Want in Relationships

I need shared purpose + mutual growth + honest challenge + loyalty + space to lead

 You need relationships that feel alive, intentional, and moving in a clear direction. You thrive when you’re working alongside someone who has vision—someone who wants to grow and isn’t afraid of putting in the effort it takes to change. You’re not interested in just existing together. You want to build momentum with someone who can dream with you, work with you, and overcome obstacles together. Shared goals don’t have to be identical, but they do need to be aligned. When there’s purpose, you’re at your best. When there’s drift, you begin to disconnect.

You also need space—not space to pull away, but space to lead. You’re wired to push things forward, and you want your relational contributions to be trusted, not resisted. You respect honesty, even when it stings, and you welcome feedback when it’s aimed at growth. What you can’t stand is being boxed in, micromanaged, or dismissed when you offer solutions. You want loyalty—demonstrated not just by words, but by actions that stick through the hard times. You invest deeply, and you want to be partnered with someone who brings that same level of commitment and drive.

What I Love + Like in Relationships

I love progress + big conversations + shared wins + problem-solving + seeing others rise

 You love relationships that move—where something is always evolving, improving, or being built together. You find joy in progress, whether that’s resolving conflict, achieving a shared milestone, or simply growing closer through honest work. You love big conversations—the kind that push past surface talk and into what really matters. You love when people bring energy to the table, when they’re not afraid of hard questions or difficult tasks, and when they commit to showing up fully.

You’re inspired by people who rise. Nothing brings you more satisfaction than seeing someone step into their potential—especially if you’ve helped them get there. You love celebrating mutual wins and tackling real-life challenges side by side. You don’t shy away from effort; in fact, you’re most engaged when there’s something to solve, fix, or achieve. You love when a relationship feels like a team—when the rhythm is shared, the pace is purposeful, and both people are actively building something that matters.

What I Dislike + Hate in Relationships

I hate passivity + wasted time + lack of vision + emotional avoidance + losing momentum

 You struggle with relationships that feel stuck. Nothing frustrates you more than being in a dynamic where nothing’s improving, nothing’s growing, and no one seems to care about making it better. You don’t have patience for passivity—when people avoid decisions, deflect responsibility, or just “go with the flow” without any intentionality. You need progress, and when it feels like you’re carrying all the momentum alone, resentment can quietly build.

You also dislike emotional avoidance. You want to talk it through, fix what’s broken, and get to the root of what’s really going on—not sit in silence or confusion. Conflict without resolution, conversations without action, or promises without follow-through feel like a waste of your energy. You’re willing to invest a lot, but only when there’s a return—not in material gain, but in movement, alignment, and shared growth. When there’s no effort, no investment, and no direction, you begin to lose interest—not out of coldness, but because you were made for forward motion.

When I Show Up in Relationships

I bring my drive + courage + vision + motivation + commitment to making things better

 When you show up, you bring momentum. You bring the fire to keep going when things are hard, the clarity to speak truth when it’s needed, and the courage to lead others through unknowns. You bring energy—sometimes bold, sometimes focused, but always purposeful. You don’t wait for change—you help create it. Whether you’re encouraging someone to step up, helping them work through a challenge, or offering direction when things feel foggy, your presence moves people forward.

You bring vision—not just of what is, but of what could be. You’re not satisfied with just surviving—you want to thrive, and you want the people you love to thrive too. You bring strength, but not just in force—you bring it in follow-through. You’re not someone who gives up when it gets tough. You hold the line, raise the standard, and pull others up with you. Your relationships are stronger, sharper, and more resilient because you’re in them—not just as a partner, but as a builder of progress and potential.